Doctor Visits
Be part of the Team | Keep a Notebook | List Concerns | Talk with the Doctor

Talk with the doctor in person.

While some memory lapses are common, they can be signs of Alzheimer's Disease. Make sure the doctor knows about the situation.

Especially if your parent has been diagnosed with a serious illness, accompany him to the doctor to learn about treatment options and medication. Take the notebook and your list of specific concerns and questions with you.

At the beginning of the visit:

• Tell the doctor you have some concerns or questions.
• Give her the list you've prepared.

Make sure you and your parent understand the answers to your questions. Take notes (and add them to your notebook) to prevent confusion later on.

Before leaving:

• Review the list of concerns to make sure you've discussed everything.
• Summarize the visit to be sure you and the doctor both understand what the provider will do, and what you and your parent will do as a result of the visit.
• Have your parent give the doctor written permission to talk with you by phone if you cannot come to a subsequent appointment.